Prayer for hard to love neighbor

Father, I know we are called to love our neighbors as ourselves, but these neighbors are rude, disrespectful… They do much to seek any kind of attention. I pray for them and their small elementary aged children. It’s hard to know how to deal with this. The eyes of the Lord are on them, and I ask for changed hearts that only He can write on anew! Am I losing my witness as a Christian by going outside to voice my frustration with this? I have children that need to get their rest for school. I need to get rest for myself. Our neighbors need their rest. Father, please give me the wisdom to address this and I ask that You be the Way in this too. You say bless those that curse us and persecute us. How, Father, do we deal with this kind of situation? I ask for guidance in Jesus name.